The counselling process begins with completing 2 intake forms and then you telling Ezreena what brings you to therapy. She will ask questions to get a deeper understanding of what is going on for you.
Ezreena will help to identify the main topics of distress and she will screen for any traumatic incidents and prepare you for trauma therapy, which is different from traditional talk therapy. She will then explain her approach to you.
On the second session Ezreena will run an energetic body process (if you choose), called the BARS, to allow your brain and body to discharge accumulated stress. This is highly therapeutic and prepares you for the next stage of counselling.
At the beginning of each session Ezreena will ask you for a brief update since the last appointment (signs of distress or progress) and then, using specific methods designed to you get you feeling better and functioning better, you will focus on a topic and process it until it feels resolved.
A natural "by-product" of therapeutic counselling and energy healing body work is a reduction in negative symptoms (such as anxiety, stress & depression), which brought you to counselling.
UNCONSCIOUS RESISTANCE is when your psychological system is trying to protect you from pain and tries to stop you from going to your sessions. It may try to convince you that you are "feeling better'" or that you "don't need therapy" or that the "therapy isn't working"; this is a double-edged sword: your psyche is protecting you AND hindering you! Don't let it win.
CHOOSE CHANGE in order to CREATE CHANGE!
Ezreena provides a quiet, safe, comfortable, confidential and non-judgemental environment which allows you to freely process your thoughts, feelings, emotions, fears and body ailments.
During the therapeutic process you may experience:
* RECORDING OF SESSIONS REQUIRE CONSENT BY CLIENT & COUNSELLOR *
Ezreena recommends one, 90 minute session per week for the first 6 to 10 weeks and then re-evaluate.
The longer sessions allow for clients to process more information in the first 6 weeks - which often jumpstarts clients feeling and functioning better..... sooner.
After your intake session, Ezreena will explain her approach and use various tools that help you process and discharge upsetting experiences and each tool is designed to get you working deeper, toward the core issues.
When the core issues shift - your world can change!
Ezreena helps to identify any traumatic incidents that you may have experienced, witnessed or overheard. Once identified you will process the thoughts, feelings and any body sensations that have been associated with those incidents, until the energy is released. When the energy is discharged - the symptoms lessen and you will naturally feel better and function better. You will resolve the experience, not simply manage the symptoms caused by the experience.
Most sessions are one-on-one for individuals.
When Ezreena provides Kelowna counselling for couples, she will meet with both clients together to get an idea of the problem(s) and then she recommends that each person attend individual counselling to work on their own stuff before bringing them back together again. This approach reduces the triggers so when the clients come back as a couple they can hear each other and respond, rather than react.
Trauma therapy is most effective when addressed one-on-one, not as a couple or a group. Using anxiety stress depression counselling tools will reduce one's reactiveness which improves relationships.
If couples decline individual counselling and prefer sessions together, Ezreena will help illuminate what the issues are and identify where the break down is and assist the couple to communicate more effectively (articulate, listen, respond and ask clarify questions rather than assume).
The clients who are ready to commit to the therapy process, progress the most!
They schedule regular weekly sessions, they show up on time, they engage in the process that is designed for them to resolve their issues (not manage the symptoms), and they are open and honest with the therapist.
When suppressed material is stimulated it will bubble up into the conscious awareness and will sometimes present as "irritability". This is a sign that something is passing through the awareness threshold........ ready to be addressed. Therapy will help you process what has come up into your awareness
Committing to therapy is committing to YOU and your WELL BEING
Trauma, anxiety stress depression counselling is about REDUCING and ELIMINATING those symptoms, which will allow you to feel better and function better.