CBT therapy is a very practical and effective approach in addressing one's issues by illuminating patterns of thinking and behaviour which lead to disturbing emotional responses.
Examining the internal dialogue of a client we can see how one's thoughts create a particular feeling which then can lead to a behaviour, which in turn reinforces the original thought; this cycle perpetuates the issue and/or pattern.
An event itself is not disturbing until we put meaning (thought/belief) to the event.
CBT examines one's negative thoughts and inaccurate assumptions and conclusions and helps to correct the mis-interpretations / mis-representations that we apply.
For example:
we "catch" the negative thought
we "challenge" the negative thought
we "change" the negative thought to a more beneficial thought
A more beneficial thought creates a more positive emotion - which will affect our choices and in turn our behaviour
These tools can be applied anywhere at any time. When we release the negative thoughts we can choose new ones. It is like new "programming"
**{One young man believed he was stupid. When I ran a CBT technique...... the emotion that had accumulated from years of believing he was stupid, had surfaced.
After purging the sorrow he was then able to see the ways in which he was smart!
That evening he texted me "this is the first time I can remember going to bed at night and my brain didn't say "I am stupid". (The thought had cleared!)
3 months later he reported that the thought didn't t even enter his mind now. The thought that "I am smart" has replaced it!}**
CBT is one of the most important counselling techniques to discharge pain and to help shift our perspective.
Ezreena will help identify any distorted beliefs or erroneous conclusions that you have made about yourself or others or the world and help to rework them.
Positive affirmations are great, however, they can be difficult to maintain if the negative belief is "charged" with emotional energy.
Ezreena has you "discharge" the energy around the negative belief and then she helps to install & reinforce a new positive belief. There is tremendous relief in this process.
This tool is very effective and can be incorporated in any session. Some clients use a full 1.5 hour session using this method. It's incredible!