What are adverse childhood experiences (ACEs)?
How do adverse childhood experiences affect adults?
Why assess adverse childhood experiences?
ADVERSE CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES CHECKLIST:
Prior to your 18th birthday:
How many did you check 'yes" to?
How do you think these experiences have impacted your development into adulthood?
The effects of trauma get stored mentally, emotionally, physically, physiologically. Trauma & mental health affect the way we think, feel and function.
Take an inventory of your adverse childhood experiences and link them to your current state of being.
VIEWING involves addressing an issue that was not fully resolved. When we have an experience that is too painful or too overwhelming at the time, our natural defence system protects us by storing the memory fully or partially in a part of our mind (the subconscious) that is not as accessible as our conscious mind (active memory).
The painful memory may not be available in active memory, yet the effects can continue to affect us. The energy required for the memory to be suppressed can contribute to fatigue, irritability, lack of alertness and clarity and an inability to remain fully present.
In an attempt to avoid situations that "trigger" the memory of unresolved distressing events, a person can become limited in living to one's full potential!
RESOLUTION versus MANAGEMENT
Resolving an incident has a person gently confront and view, several times, a distressful incident until the person is aware of all the details and there are no unwanted emotions or feelings or negative beliefs attached to the incident; the incident becomes neutral. Managing an incident is coping with the symptoms of unresolved material because one avoids looking at pieces or all of an incident
Resolving trauma brings great benefits
"Those who do not have power over the story that dominates their lives, power to retell it, to rethink it, deconstruct it, joke about it, and change it as times change, truly are powerless."
An AUTO-IMMUNE DISORDER is when one's immune system attacks specific internal organs. Melanie Anderson speaks about how her home was out of order / too much stress increased symptoms.
She speaks about the effects of trauma & mental health as a result from adverse childhood experiences.
CHRONIC PAIN is often a symptom of unresolved trauma.
When your body produces anti-bodies, which are designed to fight off germs and disease, yet they attack your own body tissue instead - this is Auto-Immune disorder!
This causes inflammation... which puts a lot of stress on the body.
Some medications, some environmental toxins, certain chemicals, some bacteria, viral infections.... and adverse childhood experiences can all contribute to Auto-Immune disorders.
Yup! During childhood children are developing psychologically, emotionally, physically, physiologically. These systems are not yet mature so the stress can get imprinted in the child's immune system.... which continues to develop into adulthood.... with programming from childhood. The environment can influence gene expression; if the environment is traumatic / abusive / stressful / neglectful..... then the body can store this.
The body will MANIFEST what has been programmed!
Dr. Amy Myers writes an excellent book called "The Auto Immune Solution".
Things Melanie did to get through the challenges:
She became Intentional:
She realized the effects of trauma & mental health and made different choices to create different outcomes, despite her adverse childhood experiences.
If you could do anything..... and know that you would not fail..... what would YOU CHOOSE?
If you didn't live by the repeated script in your head, born from your adverse childhood experiences and the effects of trauma, who would you be?
Trauma & mental health are very much entwined!
If you could choose, who would you choose to be?
What can you DO or BE to change Your life?
From victimhood to empowerment....... what would that take?
What can you learn from your adverse childhood experiences?
How can the effects of trauma & mental health be transformed?
What would it take for you to CREATE your life? Not be the victim of it?
TIR, Traumatic Incident Reduction, has you mentally confront a traumatic incident and view it several times until all the details come from suppressed memory up into your conscious awareness.
While mentally viewing, you experience the emotions and body sensations that occurred during the event that have been stored in the mind and body.
During processing, the energy that has been trapped in the body gets discharged, whereby the body can now heal itself.
After discharging the trauma stress there is a space that shows up - this space allows for new awarenesses or a shift in perspective.
This completes the TIR process which allows you to fully put the incident in the past. It no longer feels "alive" in your mind and nervous system and cannot be re-triggered. This is RESOLUTION.
A systematic approach to understanding the universals of human experience. It is the study of the person, their abilities, and their experience, as seen from their point of view, not from an external viewpoint.
An application of philosophical principles to something practical in helping people get over their difficulties, including trauma.
TRAUMA is the relationship between something that happens in a person's life AND their reaction to that experience, something that is painful and difficult to confront.
If not confronted and resolved, the information can be repressed and the negative effects continue to affect the person.
The paradox is deliberately not being aware of something one is aware of: keeping it psychologically close by so as to remember where NOT to look
Chronic pain last months or years and happens in all parts of the body. It interferes with daily life and can lead to depression and anxiety.
Chronic pain can develop from an accumulation of unresolved past experiences that get stored in the mind and body.
PROFESSIONALS WHO ARE EXPOSED TO REPEATED TRAUMA:
These professionals often compartmentalize the effects of trauma and their own adverse childhood experiences. They can accumulate until they start spilling over into all areas of their life.
Reframing is changing the way you look at something; choosing a new perspective
GRIEF is one's internal experience: sadness, despair, anger, guilt etc.
MOURNING is one's external act of grieving: writing a letter, journalling (helps process emotion..... in motion), visiting a gravestone, attending a funeral
How do you support a grieving friend? Showing up...... Not speaking up!
Grieving & Mourning will empower you to get you through the sense of powerlessness, helplessness & hopelessness
Be deliberate in your act of mourning:
1. Accept the reality of the loss: to grieve and to mourn.
Be truthful about all the emotions that you experience
2. Enter fully into the loss: tolerate the pain & give yourself permission to feel bad
3. Commemorate the deceased: find ways to convert memories of the loved one while alive (collage)
4. Develop a new identity: move from 'togetherness' to 'aloneness'
5. Contemplate the mystery of life after loss: reflect on sense of mortality
6. Garner support: don't want to live alone? then why grieve alone! Invite people to support you
7. Discard any grief recovery timetable: avoiding grieving prolongs grieving!
Honouring your pain = honouring your loved one.
Know the effects of trauma & mental health and be there to support another in the grieving process.
ACUPUNCTURE
Within the perspective of mental/emotional wellness, Acupuncture is a process that moves the Qi (chee) through the body. Qi is energy that enters the body by air to the lungs which gets transported throughout the body via the blood to break up stagnant chemistry that can cause health issues. This movement of energy provides an opportunity for new perspective / point of view. A new perspective can lead to different behaviours. Different behaviours can lead to different chemistry which creates a different body outcome!
"Your environment shapes your character"When eating, do not read, work or watch TV: your body doesn't have enough blood to generate digestion and mental processing and physical movement simultaneously. If your energy is being used for physical or mental activity then your body has less energy for proper digestionChinese Medicine:QI: energy in the bloodSHEN: compilations of your personalityJING: what you inherit from your parents (usually runs out in your 40s)
Acupuncture can:
How amazing are our bodies? Thank you body!
ORGANS & EMOTIONS:
Liver Organ System: eyes, ligaments, flanks, liver organ, gall bladder, thyroid +
Heart Organ System:
Spleen Organ System: spleen, stomach, pancreas, pensiveness (thinking too much / worry)
Lungs Organ System:
Kidney Organ System:
Bladder Organ System: insecurity, prolapsed organ, incontinence,
Acupuncture can help move the effects of trauma energy from adverse childhood experiences in order to improve mental & physical well-being.
HEALING FROM THE INSIDE - OUT
Changing your point of view / perspective changes the energy which changes the chemistry with changes your immune function: it is healing from the inside ~ out!
Healing from adverse childhood experiences and the effects of trauma allow us to create the change we desire.
EMOTIONS: THE EFFECTS OF TRAUMA:
Pain, trauma, stress, injury.... all change chemicals in your body which affect emotions: if you don't EXpress it.... you Depress it ~ In your body! The key is to move through your emotions.
The chemistry in the body from the emotion is what motivates your muscles to move through space and take action.
Anger is the chemical / the emotion to enforce our boundaries (strike a threat for example)
Rage is when you turn on every muscle in your body and EXpress those chemicals. If you are in a wheelchair - EXpress rage!
Rage will get you out of the wheelchair. Love will keep you out of the wheelchair.
FEELINGS THAT ILLUMINATE ADVERSE CHILDHOOD EXPERIENCES:
Trauma & mental health are very closely connected.
BEHAVIOUR & EFFECTS OF TRAUMA & MENTAL HEALTH
Asocial is when you avoid social interaction and/or you are inconsiderate or hostile to others
Anti-social is when you are unfriendly, withdrawn, avoidant, not wiling to communicate with others, standoffish, use disruptive and/or distasteful behaviour to drive others away.
Do you have difficulty wanting to have eye contact with people or purposely ignoring their attempts to communicate with you?
Do you find that you have very little facial expression OR too exaggerated facial responses? Are you reactive? Get defensive often? Or do you feel numb?
Do you find that your humour comes out in weird ways because you don't know how to handle certain situations? Do you laugh when something isn't actually funny OR don't laugh when something IS funny?
Where did you get these behaviours?
Examine your adverse childhood experiences to see where you learned your behaviours.